We held our first “Wanton Wands of Wonder 2.0” event on Saturday, July 18th and it was a rousing success!
We are excited to continue playing with this model, and will have our next Wanton Wands of Wonder ritual (#16) on Saturday, January 30th, 2027!
We will be opening this one up for new folks: the first step is to book a Discovery Call with a member of the Wanton Wands Admin Team.
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In alignment with our mission to explore desire in a polyamorous, queer and trans* context, Authentic Queer Desires is hosting Wanton Wands of Wonder, a queer and trans-oriented sacred kink & erotic Ritual and practice space where you can explore Queer Desire, sensuality, and eros in a witchy ritual space held by a trained somatic sex coach and others.
The broad outline of the event is:
12pm-1pm Arrival and Social Time
1pm-3:30pm Ritual
3:30pm-4pm Gather in Play Groups
4pm-6pm Play Groups!
6:30pm Closing Circle
7pm Dinner
8pm Open Negotiated Play
Our event takes place in Olympia, WA and requires a virtual discovery call, please fill out the form below and we will reach out to you to schedule.
The discovery call is not required if you have been to a previous version of Wanton Wands of Wonder, but please note that we have made significant changes in 2026, and reach out if you have any questions.
What are Wanton Wands of Wonder?
Wanton refers to being sexually unrestrained, having casual sexual relationships, and (most importantly) to frolic and play. May your sexuality, your kinks, your desires come forward to be known and witnessed!
Wands include all sort of magickal and sexual implements: athames, dildos, floggers, slappers, butt plugs, cocks, cunts, pussies, truly your imagination is the only limit here!
Wonder indicates a feeling of curiosity and desire. Your curiosity, openness, sexuality, and desires are welcome here.
Covid: Please take a rapid test before you arrive and be able to show us the results.
We ask for contributions of $20-150 sliding scale but NOTAFLOF (No One Turned Away for Lack of Funds). This includes a light dinner.
Please fill out the form below if interested and we will contact you with more details, including location.